When people talk about being an Alpha Male do they really know who they are or just pretending? Are they true to being a real alpha, might want to consult with whomever is their love interest and see if they are as dominant as they so proclaim to be. Many men today claim to be the shit that comes out of their own mouths, but in reality they are actually pussy-whipped to the millionth degree. If they want some what do they have to do for their love interest to give it to them? Yes, you're thinking correctly. A man of any stature has to submit and make his Lover happy and not piss her off. The same behavior the was expected as a teen boy to Mom is the same attitude and behavior you damn well give it and submit to her. If you don't hell shall break loose in your life.
There is no such thing as a true Alpha Dominant Male. He will always have to submit to and behave well towards his Queen that rules the house. The Patriarchy still live but with a Matriarchy flare and flame. You have to have both in a relationship, especially one with a family of children around. Even children know who rules the nest before Daddy does. The old saying goes, "If Momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy" rings true today and will forever ring true unto eternity.
A man's role is for support to his wife if in a marriage to make certain the children are well behaved and obeying Mom. To show his entire family what being a real man is all about. Giving correction when needed to the boys and allowing Mom to discipline the girls while stepping away.
In a Single's relationship there's still the dynamic of power when it comes to Power Sharing. This is why Single people need to learn to love Dual Discipline so that their relationship can grow stronger so they won't be breaking up so many darn times. Singles that refuse to grow in their relationships accidentally walk into a marriage set-up for utter failure.
Does it really hurt a man's ego that bad if he has to submit to being spanked or other disciplines applied to him from his girlfriend? No, shouldn't; but it does. Does it irritate an frustrate a woman to have to take upon herself a dominant role for a brief time to instruct and to correct her man when he messes up? No, shouldn't; but it does. Most just get hung up on the Vanilla Tree of Monotony that grows mold the kills a relationship. If you want vanilla go buy ice cream because that will be more satisfying than your own introverted stubborn egotistical desires.
So what if you have to hurt your own ego and submit. So what? This is mankind's number one problem. It's the root cause of all disappointments and delays in growth as a person. I don't care who you are; riches man on planet Earth or a Preacher, the wife and girlfriend runs the household. They also decide on interior decorating and everything else. How many times have men been scolded for leaving clothes and shoes strewn about the bedroom and not cleaning up after themselves? If your Mon did it and she darn well did, so will your girlfriend or wife. It is inherent in a woman's DNA to do so.
Again, going back to the Power Sharing Concept of any relationship. If married, Men have to take care of the heavier jobs around the house and must protect their women and girls. They also must teach boys how to be real men, not to become ego-driven assholes in life once they get into adulthood. Women are to teach girls how not to be disloyal and remain committed, and to support her man. Even Singles play a role in society to do those very things too. Married & Single People must work hand-in-hand to make a society better than what they received. In a secular sense, EGO stand for Edging Goodness Out, a religious sense in means Edging God Out. IN this writing I don't care what your beliefs are just pointing out certain things that must be stated. From word one I haven't made this about any religious belief, more common sense belief. If you have taken that, I'm sorry but not really sorry...quite frankly I don't care. Just had to state that for all the idiots that need Hooked on Phonics the Flash Card Edition for reading comprehension.
In conclusion; both male and female have to stop the bickering about roles played and focus on what's needed, not what is wanted-desired. We need to allow for conviction of love that leads to submission to each other instead of the divisiveness that comes about in our relationships. Love, Love, Love; and if necessary Tough Love either way or one it must go to. Men and Women need stop it with being so afraid their ego will be damaged all just for having to submit to another. Take a spanking and get over yourselves. Remember Love & Discipline are the same.
**I really hope this is a problem solver.**
**LOVE XOXOs,**
***KLynn***
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